When it rains, it pours. And as often as you mentioned her, I know this hurts. I have no words of wisdom to share that you haven't heard before. I'm extremely sorry that she has been called home. Be thankful for the good times and the things she taught you, that in turn, you have passed down. I love you like a brother. Peace I leave with you.
Condolence: I worked with Bobbie for many year at the University of Cincinnati. She was a pleasure to be with. She was smart, funny and caring. She spoke often of her family and it was obvious she loved them deeply. I recall that prior to retiring Bobbie spent a good amount of time getting her health needs in order. Once that was taken care of she pursued numerous projects to get her home in order. Ever diligent and impressive. I cared very much for her, have missed her presence at UC, and am sad to learn of her passing.